Tuesday, 12 February 2013

Valentines Day - hate or love it?

Today I thought I'd do a little blog on love & with Valentines Day coming up in a few days, the only thing I see on my Facebook news feed anymore is how everyone hates Valentines Day, and how they're proud to be single - which is dead funny considering 3weeks ago you were writing status about how you wanted a 'cute relationship'..

"SINGLE AND PROUD MEMBER OF THE THURSDAY CLUB"
- shut up, you're just in denial.

Some say that love just doesn't exist in real life, only in fairytales which I suppose depending on the experience or lack of experience that you've had, this point will seem true. But my theory is that love is in everything we do - our family, the person you secretley want but know you'll never have, in having crushes on celebrities. Just because you don't get what you want doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Take me for example - I'll be spending Valentines Day alone this year even though I have a boyfriend, but he'll be in a completley different continent to me on a family holiday. Fair enough it sucks that I won't have someone to spend Valentines Day with, but that doesn't mean that I'm not loved? Just means that unfortunately things can't go the way that I want them to.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2years 3months on Valentines Day, and just the thought of how we've been together for so long is a good enough present for me.

If you're all alone & think 'oh boo hoo, no one loves me' you're probably completley wrong. Everyone has someone who has a crush on them, even though they might not realise until it's too late - there's no point in feeling alone and sorry for yourself, because somewhere is someone that likes you, you just haven't found them yet.

Valentines Day is all about taking risks and chances, telling the person you've loved for 21687461 years that you care about them and want to be with them - don't just leave it to chance and wait for something to happen, because unless you make the first move, you'll never move forward.


I hope you enjoyed reading my quick blog today & agreed with some of the points that I made, tune in tomorrow for some more blogging!

J.G

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